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Green Mountain Bridesmaid

Green Mountain Bridesmaid

Got our priorities straight.  #homegrown #theywaylifeshouldbe #cukesfordayz   (at Cape Elizabeth, Maine)

Got our priorities straight. #homegrown #theywaylifeshouldbe #cukesfordayz (at Cape Elizabeth, Maine)

I hope that one day people will ask this question about me instead of Miami, “Hasn’t she developed a soul beneath her vapid, extremely pleasant, slightly menacing exterior?”

I hope that one day people will ask this question about me instead of Miami, “Hasn’t she developed a soul beneath her vapid, extremely pleasant, slightly menacing exterior?”

We dig for dinner #thewaylifeshouldbe #tellnewengland (at Ferry Beach, Scarborough, Maine)

We dig for dinner #thewaylifeshouldbe #tellnewengland (at Ferry Beach, Scarborough, Maine)

Baywatch. (at Casco Bay, Portland Maine)

Baywatch. (at Casco Bay, Portland Maine)

The rain in Maine stays mainly on the plain

The rain in Maine stays mainly on the plain

Por fin no tengo solo las ganas, ya tengo el mate tambien. πŸ™ #saboresargentinos #mate #traderjoes

Por fin no tengo solo las ganas, ya tengo el mate tambien. πŸ™ #saboresargentinos #mate #traderjoes

No complaints on this commute #thewaylifeshouldbe

No complaints on this commute #thewaylifeshouldbe

Alanis Morissette, you are a totaly INFJ. Takes one to know one.

How should a person be?
For years and years I asked it of everyone I met. I was always watching to see what they were going to do in any situation, so I could do it too. I was always listening to their answers, so if I liked them, I could make them my answers too.  I noticed the way people dressed, they way they treated their lovers—in everyone, there was something to envy. You can admire anyone for being themselves. It’s hard no to, when everyone is so good at it. But when you think of them all together like that, how can you choose? How can you say, I’d rather be responsible like Misha than irresponsible like Margaux? Responsibility looks so good on Misha, and irresponsibility looks so good on Margaux. How could I know which would look best on me? 
- Sheila Heti 
This maddening question is all I have been thinking about since I graduated high school, maybe before.  It is futile and fascinating and addictive. There, I’ve warned you.

How should a person be?

For years and years I asked it of everyone I met. I was always watching to see what they were going to do in any situation, so I could do it too. I was always listening to their answers, so if I liked them, I could make them my answers too.Β  I noticed the way people dressed, they way they treated their loversβ€”in everyone, there was something to envy. You can admire anyone for being themselves. It’s hard no to, when everyone is so good at it. But when you think of them all together like that, how can you choose? How can you say, I’d rather be responsible like Misha than irresponsible like Margaux? Responsibility looks so good on Misha, and irresponsibility looks so good on Margaux. How could I know which would look best on me?

- Sheila Heti

This maddening question is all I have been thinking about since I graduated high school, maybe before.Β  It is futile and fascinating and addictive. There, I’ve warned you.